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Discrete Gay Male Sex Meets for Married Men
Regardless of the reason you want to have a discrete gay encounter, there are several things you should keep in mind. You don’t want to get caught if you are married. Here are some ways to keep safe and on the down low.
Use Protection
It should go without saying that you should use protection anytime you have sex, especially if you are a married man and having gay male sex. You don’t want to end up getting an STD, or worse, giving it to your wife. To avoid having the conversation explaining how you got the sexually transmitted diseases, just make sure you use a condom each time.
Location
When you are meeting up for discrete sex, gay or not, you need to think about the location carefully. It’s always best to choose a place that is out of the way for both of you. If you meet at a hotel in your local town, you’re running the risk of being recognized by someone who could potentially tell your spouse. Instead, look for places that are a town or two away. Schedule a long lunch break at work so the spouse won’t realize you’re even gone. You need to make sure the guy you are meeting up with understands that it needs to be kept discrete. If you have a bad feeling about them, don’t go. It’s best to skip out on sex once day than be ousted entirely.